This picture made our 2017 Christmas card stating we are dysfunctional at times but we are always joyful in Christ. The picture was taken Thanksgiving Day. |
Chase's short lived martial arts experience |
I love seeing the boys in their matching PJs...this may be the last year I can get Chase to do this. |
A big smile on Chase as he arrives at school on the first day on the school bus. |
A fierce Batman and Skull Ninja |
The beginning of fall with leaves turning and falling...this picture was taken after church on one beautiful Sunday |
A good Christmas morning includes messy hair, PJs, and big smiles. |
One of Gabe's favorite gifts from Auntie Amber: a Home Depot leaf blower and toy chainsaw set. |
Do you ever receive Christmas cards with those letters inside where friends
and family brag on their loved ones and accomplishments for another year? I see
nothing wrong with these letters, but I do find myself rolling my eyes from time
to time because life isn’t always as peachy keen as those letters depict. I use
my blog to recap the year and brag on my family too, only I also include the bloopers that occurred as
I feel it’s a better representation of reality. As I mentioned in my last post,
it’s through those mishaps that we truly learn those important life lessons.
It’s also those imperfect moments through which we can live, laugh, and love.
2017 was by far the quickest year of my life. As cliche as it sounds, it’s
a fact: the years truly do go by faster as we get older. Although it was a
lightning-fast year, it was a good one. I won’t recap the whole year because
past 2017 blog postings tell the story. However, I will recap the last third of
the year since my last posting was before school started (wow!).
As a family, we experienced a pretty big transition switching the boys over
from a private Christian school to Isle of Wight County public schools after
Labor Day. This transition entailed not only a new school for the boys, but a
new childcare provider before and after school hours. Thankfully, these changes
went over fairly smoothly and the boys handled them with God’s grace. As soon as
they walked into Kids Come First (their new before/after school childcare
provider), they blended right in and talked with the staff as though they had
always attended there.
They also got adjusted to Hardy Elementary pretty quickly. For Gabe, it
wasn’t as big of a deal because he had been going there for speech since he was
3 years old. Kindergarten was going to be a big new experience for him
regardless of which school he attended, but I’m thankful to say he’s done even
better than expected at Hardy. He is already reading small books on his own and
scored above average for math at his age. Another huge bragging moment
(drumroll, please): Gabe’s speech has improved so much that he only needs to go
twice a month now! This time last year we were still going twice a week! Amazing
progress! His teacher believes he won’t need any more speech therapy after this
school year. What a huge blessing that is considering he was so inarticulate at
age 3!
On the other hand, Chase has never struggled with speech, except in the
sense that he doesn’t know when to stop it. Although he has made the honor roll
so far since he’s been at Hardy, he at first struggled with rushing through
assignments too much and socializing instead of listening to the teacher’s
instructions. He is learning to slow down and listen better, but there’s no
changing the fact that he’s a social butterfly. He gave martial arts a try for 5
weeks (about 10 sessions), but it didn’t take long for him to realize that it
wasn’t a social sport. After his sensei had to reprimand him for not being
focused enough and goofing off too much during multiple lessons, we decided
martial arts wasn’t Chase’s forte. He may want to try it again in the future
when he can take it more seriously, but for now, he’s going to stick with
soccer.
Speaking of soccer, Tim’s team the Pirates went undefeated for another
season in the fall. Gabe scored several goals and seems to finally be getting
the hang of the sport. Chase’s team didn’t do as well, but they still had a
blast playing. Both boys are going to play spring soccer in 2018 and Tim is going to
test out his luck coaching the 8/9 year-olds for the first time.
In the meanwhile, Gabe is signed up for swim lessons this winter at the
Smithfield YMCA. I offered swim lessons and swim team to Chase, but he swears he
is already an Olympic swimmer and doesn’t need any improvement. So, Chase is
just going to wait out the winter and look forward to soccer practices beginning
in March.
We had an exciting fall with soccer season and typical autumn festivities.
We went trunk-or-treating at First Baptist in Hopewell and trick-or-treating
around our neighborhood in Smithfield. Gabe dressed up as Batman at his school
and was Robin for going around the neighborhood. Chase was a ninja. We enjoyed
celebrating the many fall birthdays in our family. Tim and I also got to sneak in
a date day/night at Busch Gardens Howl-O-Scream. We concluded the fall with
Thanksgiving with Tim’s family in Hopewell. We celebrated with my family the
Friday after Thanksgiving.
That brings us up to one of our favorite times of year as a family:
Christmas! I’m sad that it came and went so quickly, but I’m also excited for
all of the new adventures 2018 will bring. The boys had a fun Christmas and
Santa was very good to them. We did the typical cookie baking, decorating the
house and trees and attending Christmas Eve service at church. Gabe’s offering
during the service was that he farted and proudly announced it. I don’t think
anyone else noticed outside of Tim and me, but that was quite an embarrassing
Hallelujah moment.
Of course Christmas to us also means spending time with family.
Unfortunately, one of the cornerstones of our family (Grandma) got sick on
Christmas Eve with flu-like symptoms and spent most of her day in the ER. She was unable to join us Christmas
Day, but she is better now and we were able to visit her on Friday to exchange gifts
with her. She said even though she was sick on Christmas Day, she enjoyed the
peace and was able to rest and reflect on the true meaning of the holidays (JESUS!) without having all of the chaos of family being around. I can’t help but wonder
if this was God’s way of preparing us for future Christmases without Grandma
with us...as much as I hate to ponder the thought of losing her, I have to
remind myself that she is almost 92 years old. She is amazingly healthy for her
age and gets around well, but she’s had a few more scares within the last year.
Along those lines, we never know what lies ahead of us...we could live to
be 92 like Grandma or die tomorrow. With that said, let’s make every day count in 2018 as though we could be Heaven-bound at any moment! If you're unsure if you'll be Heaven-bound when you die, don't delay believing in Christ as your Savior and committing to Him in 2018...I can assure you the Christian life isn't always easy, but there's immeasurable peace and joy that accompany it! Happy New Year!